Girls, how do you know if a guy that you loves (in this case, me telling my girl hehe) really loves you for all you’re worth?
This is a basic guideline I stumbled upon the dr Love himself.
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Bila lelaki benar2 jatuh cinta dan setia pada kekasihnya dengan ikhlas, perubahan sikapnya amat mengejutkan. Hati lelaki yg dianggap keras selama ini, tiba2 secara semulajadi menjadi selembut kapas apabila sudah jatuh cinta dgn relanya. Bahkan lelaki yg mabuk cinta sanggup berkorban dan buat apa sahaja utk kekasihnya.Sekeras manapun hati lelaki ia akan mengalirkan air mata apabila hatinya dilukai. Utk
melihat lelaki menangis amatlah payah.
Diantara tanda2 lelaki yg jatuh cinta dgn hebat ialah:
1. Dia bersungguh2 melakukan sesuatu utk kekasihnya dgn rela bukan krn terpaksa.
2. Dia sentiasa ingin menghiburkan kekasihnya dan berubah menjadi orang yg kuat bercakap.
3. Dia byk menasihati kekasihnya kerana dia amat menyayangi kekasihnya.
4. Dia berusaha mengongkong kebebasan kekasihnya krn perasaan cemburunya yang meluap-luap.
5. Dia sentiasa takut kehilangan kekasihnya.
6. Dia sentiasa mengawasi pergerakan kekasihnya krn dia sentiasa berasa curiga.
7. Dia tidak suka ada lelaki lain rapat dgn kekasihnya.
8. Dia mudah merasa cemburu dan sensitif apabila kekasihnya tidak menumpukan sepenuh perhatian kepadanya.
9. Adakalanya dia seperti seorang anak kecil yang meminta perhatian krn dia mahu kekasihnya melayannya
lebih dari org lain.
10. Dia menjadi org yg paling rajin dan sanggup membantu kekasihnya melakukan apa saja.
11. Dia pandai merajuk hati krn ingin dipujuk oleh kekasihnya.
12. Dia akan mengalabah apabila kekasihnya berjauhan daripanya terlalu lama.
13. Dia sentiasa mempastikan keselamatan kekasihnya.
14. Dia mementingkan kekasihnya daripada dirinya sendiri.
15. Dia kerap bertanya adakah kekasihnya mencintainya krn dia merasa kasihnya lebih kuat drpd kekasihnya.
16. Dia tidak akan melayan perempuan lain yg tidak ada urusan penting dengannya.
17. Dia cuba meluangkan lebih byk masa dgn kekasihnya walaupun terpaksa menunggu kekasihnya dgn sabar.
18. Dia membanggakan kekasihnya di depan org lain.
19. Kalau ditinggalkan oleh kekasihnya, ia akan berasa serik dan tidak percaya dgn cinta perempuan lain namun dia sentiasa mengharap kekasihnya kembali kepadanya.
20. Apabila timbul org ketiga, dia akan hilang akal dan sanggup berbuat apa saja untuk merebut kembali kekasihnya.
21. Dia menganggap kekasihnya sebagai org yg paling dipercayainya dan sanggup menyerahkan harta walaupun nyawanya sendiri.
22. Dia tidak akan berlaku curang kepada kekasihnya namun jikalau dia dia berbuat demikian itu bererti hatinya belum 100 peratus mencintai kekasihnya.
23. Bukan semua lelaki sanggup menitiskan airmata hanya untuk seorang perempuan.
“HARGAILAH MEREKA” – pesanan penaja huhuhu
very nice layout.
~ thanks dude.
ok… does this has anything to do with “heart”?
- yep it does.
so true ok muril
that’s so true~
aku nannes baca through the lines
~ hata aku pon nanes jua meh kita nanes sesama 3 org – nad skali ahaks
thank u..haha..i found one!
~ huhu tanak bgtau plak tu kan
huwaa..
nanes!
~ huwaa nanes jua hehe
Dearest umi son mirul,
Nice knowing all those words- least can see if any of it happens to umi son afiq. Aha
Been very sad lately so any nice words about orang teraniaya.
Take care n eat well
~ dear umi,
orang teraniaya doa dia takde hijab dgn Allah. i guess u can use that advantage
pray for a million bucks, for starters? then dtg ukraine *wide grin*
Thanks for the thought, going up to russia sure enough next year ok.
~ really? russia in which part exactly?
hmm.. love tips ni die publish dlm blog yer “;)
~ hurm ha’ah.. alermak kantoi le pulak kan …
Satu yg me perasan, bila seorang lelaki mencintai seorang wanita, egonya diletak ke tepi!
~ but mum, in my opinion in most clashes/breakup/divorce, it is fueled by the male ego!! lelaki tu tanak pujuk pompuan tu kembali ke pangkuan laki tu – isn’t it a guy’s job? well different people different ways of handling crisis i guess. but i just hate to see the male ego get between of clashes.
“most clashes/breakup/divorce, it is fueled by the male ego!!” ?
tak setuju!!! “:P
~ really? how exactly do u prove that? biasanya lelaki cam malas nak pujuk sbb tu pompuan majok huhu
Sama cam Danny ~~~ tak setuju!!
- clashes/breakup/divorce = tanggunjawab both lelaki n perempuan. Its not about ego, its about doing the right thing.
kalau mmg u cant live together anymore, y paksa2?
kalau mmg cinta/sayang tuh dah tak der, y menipu diri sendiri?
lelaki bukan malas memujuk, cuma cara pujukan lelaki tu perempuan yg x faham. lelaki not transparent with their feeling. lelaki suka straight forward. katakan dia dah kata sorry n everything to the girl, n katakan dah do something to get forgiveness from the girl; eg beli bunga ke coklat ke etc, tapi perempuan ni masih lagi nak dgr kata2 manis, kata2 loving, kata2 sorry dari the guy. so, the guy fed up la.
i dont know about the others la. tapi ni perangai yg i learned from my hubby. hehehehe…..
~ ahaks. battle of the genders. i’m not ready for this i guess.
but again, for me, on my side, if i really2 love that girl and i want to make it work i’ll pujuk the girl kow2 punye sampai dia melt again and sampai dia love me back hehe. it’s not a player characteristic but just a matter of “hendak seribu daya”. if i want her i’ll give everything to get her back. if i dont want her then i’ll just buat bodo je huhuhu..
totally agree with janesach- or shud i call u mom?
“clashes/breakup/divorce = tanggunjawab both lelaki n perempuan. Its not about ego, its about doing the right thing.”
u r very understanding.. i wish my beloved one could learn something from u
“lelaki not transparent with their feeling. lelaki suka straight forward. katakan dia dah kata sorry n everything to the girl”
hmmm mom sgt memahami hati lelaki- best nyer! ur hubby must be very lucky then! “:D
nanti nak suruh my love learn fm u lar mom… “;)
Adik,
see… betul tak abg mcm yang abg ckp? exactly like wht mom have mentioned
proven proven proven!… jejjeje “:D
~ adehh pedih pedih huhu bertalu talu plak tu kena sembur both from a super senior huhuhu
okay okay i get your guy’s point
because mum dah kawin, then dah ada anak dah, bro danny lak nak kawin gaks. so i guess u guys mesti have some good points in life.
the question is those that dont hv experience learn from experience.. and it may be a long process – so bear with it bro danny. dont push ur loved one cian dia ahaks..
for me, one important thing (that i learn last night) a girl shudnt lawan her bf/hubby’s word. tu jer.
Ala Danny, Irzan.. macam tak tau yg Life is a process of learning… makin jauh kita pergi, makin byk kita belajar… TAPI, itupun kalau kita nak belajar la… kalau kita buat derk je pun tak guna!
Hahaha.. Danny… first thing, panggil la apa aja. Lagipun, apa ada pada nama. Asai jgn panggil OIT udah le. Bdway, I thought Irzan said that u’re Dr. Love.. patutnya I yg kena belajar dari u kot.. heheeh~~~~
N for your last words tu kan Irzan, “a girl shudnt lawan her bf/hubby’s word” tu… mungkin lawan is not the right word. 4 me, better DIAM, dont provoke. Thats what I learned from my dad in-law. Dad kata, “berlawan kata, tak akan ada sudahnya. walau kita tak setuju, kita kena diam. sbb perkataan yg akan keluar bila hati tgh bara, tgh excited, akan penuh dgn emosi.”
~ hmm yerp i truly agree. like a friend of mine said masa dia ada problem dgn relationship tu kan, dia always compare dia punya gf dgn mum dia. dia kata mum dia, bila kena marah dengan dad dia, selalu diam. even tho apa yg his dad kata terang2 salah pun his mum diam jer. i guess it takes a real woman’s courage to do that. bukan semua orang boleh buat camtu.
well you know most girls kerja dia nak melenting jer. salah sikit nak bangkang, ada je tak puas hati. ada je yg nak suarakan “keadilan wanita” and all these stuffs about woman power.
my mum pun sama i guess. dia patut boleh kerja big shots, graduated fr biochemistry degree from US tapi chose to work kat trg as a teacher – all for my dad. she sacrificed a lot. dia duduk dalam bumi yg totally foreign – tak reti cakap trg, her in laws tak suka dia dulu, tapi dia sabar jer. result is a pretty excellent marriage (walaupun me tak excellent sangat ahaks)
what do Dr Love says? *wink* - tiba2 ruangan komen ni jadi ruang sembang pulak kan..
My dear Broe…
Hmmm knowing your mom and getting to meet her during my visit to KT was such a great honor.
Frm the btm of my heart, I salute her.
Anyway.. Mom Jane… please, I am not Dr Love… merapu jer ckp si Irzan tu jejejeje
Yup… we are all learners anyway, learning from each other and keep sharing stories and experiences for the good of mankind
~ i guess i think my mom deserve jugak kot. she sacrificed so much. she had a degree fr US in organic chemistry (under MARA), can work in some big city get the full blown salary, but gave it all up for my dad, chose to stay in kampung terengganu, and work as a normal teacher in a state gov school. note that salary of state gov school is slightly lower than kementerian’s school. sigh. i also really respect her lah. it takes a real love to do that tau.
hmm abg Danny bukan Dr Love? *bzzz bzzz lie detector berbunyik huhu*
YERP! agree we are all learners and we are all entitled to voice our opinion kan kan kan bro kan
alop..gua ade prob r bro..gua kene tggl ngan awek gua..die srh gua cari diri sndri dulu..jika hati die terbuka utk gua.dia akan terima gua balik..ape pendapat lu bro?adakah kami akan berbaiik balik?gua xleh idup tnpa die bro..mase blum knl bleh r..camne nk buat utk die balik kpd gua?
aiseymen…kalau ada pakwe jiwang karat macam tu nak kat aku…kecil tisu muka sebaldi kutadahkan air mata ini…huhuhuhu…
bestnyer kalo ader laki cm2 skang nie kan??
skang nie ssh sgt nk cari laki cm2…
laki cume tahu nk mainkan prassan wanita je dan mereka cuma ambik ksempatan ats kelemahan wanita je….